Projectors are not here to have agendas. If, like me, you are a Projector, you probably have plans and goals and hopes, and then when stuff doesn’t work out, you get bitter. I know I have (and currently am). Our world is designed primarily for Generators and Manifesting Generators, who are supposed to move through life by responding to things, a sunbeam, a song, a person cutting them off, a post, etc. They see a job posting, they can apply if their Authority type leads them to. They read a book and get inspired, they can set a goal from that inspiration. Etc. This is about 70% of people in the world, and this energy creates energetic pressure on others to behave similarly.
Then we have the influence of Manifestors, who are here to get things going (Nike: Just Do It!) and their energy is gorgeous and has been culturally idolized. The go getter is praised and admired, and we tend to feel pressure to do the same. There aren’t as many Manifestors out there as Generators, but the cultural admiration for their strategy still makes it high pressure for others.
Reflectors (about 1% of people) sample life and create no pressure on others (but feel everyone else’s pressure). Projectors are here to see deeply into others and offer advice and guidance, when Invited. We have an attractive energy and life supports us when we wait to be Invited. Invitations are necessary for finding a life mate, getting a job, finding a home, and forming partnerships. When we decide to have an agenda in life in these areas, we will be resisted by life. It’s like being a surgeon. If you walk up to random people and try to operate on them, how do you think that will go? But if you wait for them to ask for your skills, you can have a huge impact.
I struggle with not having an agenda in my life. I want to be a certain weight, have a certain kind of job, live in a certain kind of place, etc. I am working on embracing that my life path does not involve agendas. That I can trust life to support me and give me what is right for me. That I can give up trying to be in control and just be Here Now and Trust.
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